“Denial is a finger of blame pointing towards another. Conflict is an expectation imposed onto another. Frustration is the inability to control the will of another. Sadness is a dependency on another. Loneliness is waiting for another to arrive. Solitude is freedom from needing another. Harmony is embracing the uniqueness of another. Grace is seeing there is no other. Enlightenment is when the subjects of one and another disappear. Love is what remains throughout it all.”  Matt Kahn


“We habitually erect a barrier called blame that keeps us from communicating genuinely with others, and we fortify it with our concepts of who’s right and who’s wrong. We do that with the people who are closest to us and we do it with political systems, with all kinds of things that we don’t like about our associates or our society.  It is a very common, ancient, well-perfected device for trying to feel better. Blame others…Blaming is a way to protect your heart, trying to protect what is soft and open and tender in yourself. Rather than own that pain, we scramble to find some comfortable ground.”  Unknown


“If I am to be fallen into love, I will. And if as a result I will appear to be stupid, disillusioned, and of poor judgment, I will. And I would be damned if I cared what other people think. For I would rather be thought of as all of these things, than not love. If in loving, I become the naked woman on the horse, I will ride that horse with my head held high. This is my spirit. I am unbreakable.”    C. JoyBell C.

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