QUOTE

“The only way that we can live, is if we grow. The only way that we can grow is if we change. The only way that we can change is if we learn. The only way we can learn is if we are exposed. And the only way that we can become exposed is if we throw ourselves out into the open. Do it. Throw yourself.”  C. Joybell C.

 

TFFT Monsters Exist

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Growing up we were that the good guys always win, and with that came an expectation that life would be fair.  In fact, perhaps it made it easier to opt out of paying attention because clearly, this was just how it was.  Good guys and bad guys were easily identifiable.  Monsters were in scary places and mainly fairy tales that most of us left far behind us as we headed into adulthood full of idealism and dreams.

But monsters do exist outside of fairy tales and they are not always identifiable and sometimes they even show up in our lives as the fairy princess or the guy in the white hat.  And, assuming that someone else was keeping life fair was the worst mistake we ever made. Continue reading

FLOW

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People are real.

They have feelings and everything that is said and done to a human being in a day impact upon them for either the positive or the negative.

People carry those impacts with them and they begin to form the person they are.

People are not cattle to climb over on your way to the top, to use and abuse to make sure you stand in the spotlight.  They are not disposable.  Friending them when you don’t care about what happens to them or that they are happy is disgusting.  Playing at love and intimacy when it is just a game to you is even worse. Continue reading

Kids Have a Hole in Their Soul.

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I would say it is in the shape of the parent being kept out of their lives.  We have to acknowledge that alienation happens to both moms and dads.  Frankly anyone who would do this a child, is a disgusting human being.  I am not sure how anyone can be immune to the obvious signs of a child whose soul is being crushed by the hate one parent has for the other.

Another great website with some super practical tips for dealing with the alienation:

http://parentalalienationinfo.com/2012/09/17-strategies-for-combating-parental-alienation-syndrome.html

QUOTE

“Plenty of people inspire us to be ‘more’ and to be ‘better.’ Very few people inspire us to remember the fact that we were created whole and are already exquisite and divine.”  Unknown

Dear Biff, About Your Haunted Service Station.

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Dear Biff;

Re:  Your Sears Automotive Service Station – the Haunting.

A lot of time has passed and I suppose we are proof that restraining orders can be successful if cared for and updated regularly and the two people involved are kept on separate continents.

I am on Facebook now and lots of people post pretty pictures with sayings on them about families and love and forgiveness.

I block them right away. Continue reading

TFFT If You Don’t Stand For Something, You Stand For Nothing.

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We have a responsibility to ourselves, our families and our communities to see what is happening around us and to do something about it.  None of us can afford to wait until we are personally impacted by the many tragedies going on in the world today.  If we are not going to act as a world wide community then we are doomed ourselves to stand alone in our own tragedy when it arrives at our door . . . and we have no-one else to blame but ourselves.  Continue reading