“People who want you in their life, have you in their lives.  They don’t have to think about it or plan for the day when it might happens.  They don’t have to make “the effort.”  They don’t have a list of things that you have to do or be in order for them to have that relationship.   We don’t get to hold today’s moments’s static, bookmarking their possibility in tomorrow.   If you are planning to come back “some day” when it suits you, you will find that story written, the people have moved on without you and the opportunity you thought you were in control of has come and gone. ”  Aria E. Appleford