“Control is one of the biggest illusion that feeds our egos.  To put it simply, while i may have control over the next breathe that i inhale, i have absolutely no control over the next beating of my own heart.  There are few things in life that is in our control—namely our thoughts, speech and actions—take charge of them will give you more sense of peace than you realize.   The work you put in the gaining control in self while may be harder than you imagine, truth is, you WILL start seeing difference in the quality of your life. Our mental shift does have the power of influencing external circumstances around us.”    tanglejan